So I had this huge crush on this guy who was older than me. He lived in my city and kept asking to meet up and now I know that he is a creep. Like he told me I was beautiful and I don't even know why I started liking him. It felt so weird maybe it's just teenage hormones. I'm still attracted to guys my age but why do I look at guys older than me more? When I'm older will I still like older guys or will it all even out. I HATE THIS.
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You hate it because you are too judgmental on yourself. You want to fit into the little box that society defines as acceptable behavior but the problem is you do not and it creates internal conflict. In fact a lot of what is deemed *unacceptable* goes in direct conflict with our base instincts.
As to if its normal... yes absolutely. Once someone hits puberty and becomes sexually developed they can be attractive. It does not matter if they are a teenager or in their 20s or 30s, as long as they are still in their prime.
A lot of the girls I have dated in the past few months have been 16/17 and I once dated a girl who was older than me. Yes a lot of people think its weird but im more concerned about doing what I want than appealing to the sensitivities of society0
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