My boyfriend & I have been together for 7 months. We were in this program called job corps & we were with each other all day, every day. We loved being around each other. We fell in love fast. He said he is very picky on who he dates & falling in love this fast really means something to him. He said I am the last person he'll ever love & he can't wait to live with me & grow old with me. We graduated together & left each other the same day. Reasons why I can't live with him now is because I'm 17 & he is 20, also were not financially stable yet. He lives in Flordia, I live in Delaware. We won't be able to see each other until I turn 18 which is in 6 months. Him & I planned everything together in the future...(Side note) When we had to go back home Christmas break he didn't contact me the whole time for our 3 week vacation. He only said few things. We came back to job corps & I was angry. He said he was with friends & family. I was thinking what if he does this when we're actually separated? Then what? So here we are separated & he did good his first week, he does have a job & when he gets off at work he'll call me at night & we'll talk for a little bit. Sometimes he'll text me during work.. Then the second week comes I haven't heard from him.. At all! Nothing. I call him at nights after work & his phone is off. I keep asking him what is wrong? What did I do? No response. Then I begged him not to turn off his phone because I want to talk & I miss him. He turns off his phone anyway. It's been like this for more than week. The only thing I heard from him after a week of him not talking to me is "I'm fucking stressed, I need a little peace & quiet." Then nothing from him again. I understand people need to be alone sometimes but more than week? Doesn't he know that I'm stressed? I don't know what to think.
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Move on and dont chase after anyone. Stop reaching out. Dont be so available. If he doesn't come looking for you within a week then forget about him. For real. No exceptions. Dont allow yourself to get played or be used as someones entertainment because you are willing to be there.0