So, there's this girl that I met online. We really fell for eachother (if you think teens can't fall in love, fine. But that's not the point). Over time we dated a bit but then decided that we should wait to date until we meet in person. Here's the thing.. she isn't really the most mature person on the planet. That being whenever I get a girlfriend that isn't her she makes me feel like shit about it and then makes me feel like a terrible person when I do snap at her for being a little bitch about it. I love her, really and I truly do see us being togather in the future but when it comes to this she can be manipulative af. I don't think she means to be but I'm just done putting up with it. I can date who I please. Today I got a girlfriend. How do I tell this girl that I'm dating again without her starting drama?
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I dont get how you say you could have a relationship with the girl online but you still want to have a girlfriend in real life. Anyway i agree she is acting sort of immature, if you guys aren't dating then who you have a relationship with is none of her business unless your girlfriend treats you like crap. Or she just really cares about you and is therefore acting really over protective. Now if you are going to tell her, you need to stand your ground, you can't change how she reacts but you can show her she isn't going to get her own way. If this is really a big problem in your friendship then perhaps break it off (you seem fine dating the girls you know in real life despite the fact that you said you care about her) or just dont mention it to her or even just explain that you are tired of her reactions. If she gets angry at that then maybe it isn't meant to be. If I was her i probably wouldn't act like that but i can see why she is. you have told her you want to be with her and yet you are dating other people which is just probably frustrating for her and confusing. Whatever you do, good luck1