I feel like I need completely fix my self esteem issues and I've missed out on amazing girls. Was I right in not pursuing them because of this or should I have asked them out then let them choose if they wanted to help me deal with the issues?
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You've gotta fix yourself. Otherwise low self esteem leads to terrible partners more times than not. Or else, getting s good person, but pushing them away with inappropriate demands on them - like them knowing how to fix you to begin with.
Partners are great for sharing life, but they aren't free therapists. Do the work, you'll feel better, have a clearer path and be stronger! Good luck!0