This guy & I were really into each other for the past two months, we instantly felt a deep connection and made each other happy. We were literally at that point of getting into a relationship... then I kind of freaked out.. my interest was diminishing, which is a problem I have, perhaps commitment issues, so I told him the truth and that I needed time. I said I wanted to be friends and he agreed, but we haven't spoken to each other in almost two months. I took the time for myself, and now I want a chance again, but I kind of feel bad for interrupting what we had because of MY problems. I want to text him. Should I feel bad? I don't know if he may want to talk to me. Is it okay I took this time? Am I wrong?
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It is okay that you took your time to do all of that, however, don't expect him to be just there waiting for you because chances are, after 2 months, maybe he won't and that's what happens when you do things like this.
I wouldn't get your hopes up, I say message him but you'll be lucky if he still feels the same way. And seeing as though you took the time to figure yourself out and see that you still want to date him, let's hope that won't happen again, for his sake, of course.
All the best. :)1