How do you know when you're the "side chick"?

What are the signs a female should look out for?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • 1. Does he have odd rules about when it is or isn't okay to contact him?

    2. Is he very difficult to get a hold of by phone?

    3. Does he frequently cancel plans with you with very little notice?

    4. Does he have some weird reason why he doesn't want you posting stuff on his social media websites?

    5. Does he use nicknames and pet names for youmore frequently than your real name?

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What Guys Said 5

  • When he calls you sporadically, and there is a lack of emotional connection, then you may be the "side chick". If a guy says he is too busy for you FREQUENTLY not occasionally then he is stringing you along. Hope that helps

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  • He doesn't really invest a lot of time with you. he's there when ever he wants sex but it no where to be seen for other things.

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  • When you are on the left side?

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  • Jeez, how hard can it be? You're fucking a guy who is with someone else.

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  • If she's having to ask if she's the side chick, she probably is the "side chick", or basically, the home wrecker

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What Girls Said 6

  • To answer this, for me I need to have a bit more context.

    Firstly, are we dealing with a man or a woman? Are you meaning side chick as not his primary love interest, or side chick as in wingwoman?

    Secondly, I'm assuming that it's the first one, so if that's the case, is he seeing someone else? Is he a friend? Have you known him a long time? Have you told him or your feelings?

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  • 1. He never invites you back to his place.
    2. Always canceling plans
    3. Is hard to get a hold of
    4. Will not introduce you to friends or family
    5. He seems to be only interested in sex
    6. Everywhere ya’ll go he makes you stay in the car.
    7. He only calls you late at night.
    8. He wants the relationship to be private
    9. He claims to have no social media accounts
    10. He is cheap.

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  • Well, the other woman is a good indication. Secrecy on his part is a good sign. A wedding ring is a real giveaway. Never going to "his" place is a good sign.

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  • When he tries to hide me and make a shit load of excuses to why he can't go out with me or why I can't come over his place

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  • He comes over, fucks you, cums, then leaves.

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  • He doesn't text or call
    He only calls you when either he's fighting with the girlfriend or to fuk
    He won't go out with you on a "date"

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