The person I am currently dating, we have been together for four months... Casually dating in the beginning for about a month. During a weekend trip, I asked him if has been sleeping with anyone or seeing any besides me, he responded yes. He had been talking to and slept with his ex. Even told her he loved her... I couldn't be mad compeltely because we were just casually seeing eachother. The next day we discussed our relationship and we made a commitment to one another and became exclusive. Great. I woke up the following morning to a text asking me to come over because we needed to talk. He told me that they were texting and she was sending him sexy snaps and he told her she was a tease yada yada... Ultimately, he went over there to be with her. He says they didn't have sex... that it turned into an argument and he left. Asked me for forgiveness and I stayed after a long talk with him and a little break.
here's the delima now and why I asked for her to be deleted.
We are four months into our relationship. He really hurt me when not even 24hrs after comitting to "us", he went to his ex. Perhaps poor judgement on my end getting back with him but that is besides the point. We have really grown closer and recently I saw he like her IG picture. The thought of her, her name, her face... it brings up feelings and memories of what happened and how hurt I was. He states that he can keep her on IG because he can. Simple as that. & if she ever wanted to be friends later on he could be friends with her. That I need to trust him...
Is it wrong for me to feel like my feelings are being totally overlooked here? Is it wrong to ask/expect he would delete her for respect of our relationship and my feelings? This will continue being a problem in my eyes... every time she texts him randomly, he likes a picture or she likes his. I hate social media.
Most Helpful Guy
well technically he is on strike 1. 2 more strikes and he is out according to the rules of baseball. but perhaps don't go further than strike 2 lol.1