i recently took this approach but not in a nasty way with a girl i dated who got cold feet and it worked and she wants to meet up next week. When you are dealing with a shy girl is there a limit to how mean you should be. The reason been it took guts for her to arrange this and secondly i don't want to come across as been inconsiderate. For example, i stopped texting and emailing but would talk to her when i'd see her.
Treat em mean to keep em keen but how far is too mean?
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Need more info, so far, based on what u put in the feed... you are just trying to increase your interest level... it appears possibly she responds to mystery... Or some level of self control on your part... if she is shy you will have to encourage her to come out her shell, if she truly likes you no matter what you do other than really treating her bad , she is going to be with you... its all in the cards my friend.0
There's a limit with everyone not just shy girls. Everyone has a breaking point but its different for everyone. Ask her if your being too mean0
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