So I have a crush on a 14 year old guy and I'm 17 (I'm using my friend's account, so ignore the age). My friends think it's weird, but I don't feel like I'm talking to a 14 year old whenever I talk to him. He's really smart and he's going to college after a year (before me). I think he likes me too but I'm not sure. He's really shy so I know I'll have to make the first move. I'll probably have to pay for our dates too, and I'm fine with that. We obviously won't be having sex. So should I go for it?
Most Helpful Guy
Careful dating minors after you're 18. That stuff can throw you in jail. I didn't know that until one of my friends randomly brought that up so I figured I should run that by ya lol.
Anyway as long as there isn't anything sexual until after he's 18, you're fine. I don't find it weird because 3 years is not much on me, however since you're 17 I'd understand that's a little abnormal. Do what makes you happy, not your friends.1
Most Helpful Girl
It's socially acceptable for a 17 yo guy to go out with a 14 yo girl so I don't see why it won't be the other way round. You do you! Go for it if it's what you want0