I had a few great dates with a guy, and we almost had sex but I thought it was too early since it was still early in the relationship and I wanted to know him more, even though I am really attracted to him. I admit that I do like to play games from time to time (I know it's not mature, but it keeps things interesting) and he said some games if done tastefully can make thngs interesting, as long as we're going towards a common goal. When I asked him what does that mean then (the common goal) and he wouldn't say a relationship but admit that he likes me (this was our second date).
So after our last date I started becoming more distant and pulling back, replying to his texts a day later, and ignoring some. Will this make him want to pursue me more and go towards a relationship?
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It might. But I say I don't mind games too so that way if she decides to play them I can dump her. Like leaving a door slightly ajar that says do not enter that's rigged to prank you. If she respects the sign she never gets pranked. I do it just to get her to show her real character. A women willing to play games in order to get what she wants is a waste of time to me. Playing games is another word for manipulation to me and manipulators are stressful, annoying, and ultimately boring when the manipulation ends. In my mind manipulators don't want me they just want me to want them or in other words they're to insecure to let me make that decision on my own. Nine times out of ten they're right though had they not manipulated me I would've never been interested.0