I recently moved to a new state. I met this guy and we have been texting everyday since December and had a couple of dates. He was super supportive, kind, and loving, we decided not to date other people. He always told me how he thought I was smart, Kind, funny and beautiful. It was all the things leading to a relationship and we were close. So last Saturday we finally slept together, after showing me a lot of affection the next afternoon he left... Then deleted me off everything, and has ignored me since, like the dude has disappeared and cancelled me out with no explanation? Maybe this is a thing southern guys do? What am I supposed to think?
When you're dating a guy for six months and he disappears. What's the deal?
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It's not just a southern guy thing, it's an uncompassionate act from both sexes but u mostly see it from males (from anywhere). I'm greatly sorry u got played. I'm hurting for u. No one deserves that kind of treatment.
My stepdad taught me that after the first six months of a date, you should learn a lot about that person. Good or bad.1
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Sorry to hear that. He clearly just wanted to have sex with you. He just sounds like a bad egg to be honest. You said he could get laid anywhere, which is probably true but for some reason he wanted to sleep with you and I guess he wanted to know that you weren't sleeping with anyone else. This is kind of sad and worrying as I always like to wait it out and I'd dread for something like this to happen. If you want closure then maybe you should try and call him. If he doesn't respond then keep it moving, he is an idiot.0
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