He would stare at me while I was talking, at one point I swear he fixated on my mouth and fell into a trance. We closed the restaurant down and I suggested to call it a night since he mentioned several times that he likes to go to bed early. He offered to go somewhere else, so we did and stayed there chatting till 1am. Attracted, right? Wrong. The guy avoided touching me like I was made of hot coal. I was absolutely certain he didn't like me or something, yet he offered to give me a ride home. Ok. We get home, he doesn't even try to kiss me good night. I hug him and leave. He texts me while he's driving home and the night ends. Next day - total silence. What is UP?
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Staring in a conversation sometimes is the best way for a guy to truly LISTEN to a woman. Because he is actively aware using both lip movement and audible sounds to transcribe what you are saying. This is me giving him the benefit of the doubt.
But yeah, he could still be weird, and maybe he has a fetish... maybe he's lonely. Hard to tell.
Another thing though, and i'm kinda against it but is common; guys won't text immediately the next day. In fact, they'll wait a couple days before contact in order to not come off as desperate or too attached too soon.
If you think its enough to garner a second date... i say you can initiate it. Nothing in the rules says you can't.0