So I was talking to this guy on this online dating site. He seems really nice but I always proceed with caution. So he finds me onf facebook and I accept his request. So I have noticed on facebook he constantly posts photos of him and another woman going out. Like to the mall, movies, etc. The thing is that he keeps texting me asking me what I am doing for the weekend and if I want to meet up for lunch. I think this is a bit weird because why on earth is he posting pictures posing with another lady.
I asked him and I said no offense I don't feel comfortable going out with you since you are in a relationship. He responds my saying that she does not live with him and they are just dating. I am pretty sure if this lady knew that he was sending me messages about going out I don't think she would like it. Do you think I am wrong for telling him no. I think it looks so sleazy when he posts photos of another lady and then asks me to go out every other week. Opinions please.
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I don't believe that you are wrong for telling him no. It's best not get involved in this kind of situation. It just makes it worse for everyone by joining in. You deserve someone that's going to appreciate and care for you and you'll be enough for him. You'll be the only person that matters to him. He won't be with 2 or 3 or more people.. just you. Because who really wants to be treated like they're not good enough or feel as though they have to compete for someone? The right guy will come your way, please just wait for him. Or find him. That works too. Just this situation is something that best be avoided. I hope nothing but the best for you. (:0