is making out on a date having low standards? I don't see it as a bad thing or if the guy will lose respect for me
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Sounds like you are trying to snag a guy with only your value as a toy for sex. Are you making out because it's a turn on, or because you want the guy to like you? I lose respect for a girl for several reasons. Manipulative behavior, self-centered behavior, and a victim mentality.
More and more sex and sexual attraction have replaced love. If you want love, it takes time. If you want sex, spread your legs on the first date. Neither one is wrong, they just lead to different outcomes. going slow and learning about the other person makes them real and not a sex toy. Going fast skips the learning process and technically it is just sex and usually doesn't become a good relationship. Build your foundation on stone or sand, It's up to you!0