Im a scorpio male very interested in this cancer girl.
I dont have the best history with cancer woman, I usually blow it by beig too quick to strike the pan.
Any cancer woman who habe dated or are dating a scorpio male. Do you have any advice for me? How do I make sure I dont blow it.
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I am a cancer woman but I haven't ever been with a scorpio guy. From what I read, it is supposed to be a good match. The main thing that can cause problems is if his naturally jealous streak comes out. As a cancer woman I can tell you how I fall for a guy, maybe that will help... so initially I am a bit reserved and hide in a shell. I might flirt with him but I only want him coming as close to me as I am comfortable with as I will still have barriers up (my shell). He has to work his way through these barriers by earning my trust by umderstandi g me on an emotional level - usually with compassion and empathy. I start dropping barriers if I feel he understands me. I like if he asks questions that show he wants to understand me. If I retreat he can't try drag me out of the shell he has to reassure me it is safe to come out and share with him. Abrasiveness will chase me back into my shell as will impatience. I'll give you an actual example - a Taurean boyfriend used to say "what are you thinking?" and I'd say "nothing" and he'd then say "god, you never share with me, I always share with you". This did not make me want to tell him anything. Next I dated a Pisces guy. On our second date he said "what are you thinking" and I immediately said "nothing" and he cuddled up closer to me, leaned his head over to touch mine and whispered "it's ok, you can share with me". Awwww that made me feel safe, especially compares to what I had been subjected to. So it's just a matter of realising when a barrier is there and making her feel safe to remove it.2
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