I've been seeing this guy for 3 weeks or so now. I've been to his house a couple of times. We've missed and done sexual things, but haven't slept together. anyway, he's previously told me that he found me on fb and said that I looked gorgeous on my profile picture. I told him at the time that that if he wanted he could just add me. He didn't say anything other than he didn't use it much and hardly had any pics on there.
He's going back to his home country tomorrow and said we should keep in touch. He wrote to me on fb and we wrote back and forth today. I wrote to him 'Do you want me to add you btw?' as he hadn't added me for some time and I thought I'd ask him. He said 'you can if you really want to'. I ended up sending him a request and a couple of hours later he wrote that 'I dont really want to accept you. We haven't known each other for that long'
am I right to be a bit mad or frustrated by this? Or am I overreacting?
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um the way you described this question makes me think this guy is not really that serious about you and probably has other women on the side or another side of him he doesn't want you to know about. i would not do any more sexual things with him until i get to the bottom of his reluctance to add you. dont let anyone tell you this is something you should just brush off bc its not1