My boyfriend and I have been together 4 years and he said that if he hits the lottery that he will give his winnings to his family first. I said with a smile I hope you would include me in the family category. Later he said his mom found it weird that I said that. I don't understand how we are both 28 years old and been together 4 years of course I would assume that he means me too when he says family. I mean if he doesn't see me as family after that amount of time then that doesn't say very much about our relationship. He said of course he meant me too. Why is that weird its not like we have been dating four months. Besides I don't see how it was even his moms business to get involved in what is said in our relationship.
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No. What you said is pretty normal. You said that because you're in love with him and you want to marry him, right? Women drop hints that guys and guys are (hopefully) supposed to pick up on those signals. If you're talking about being family then he'd should realize you want to marry him.1