My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year. I stopped him from talking to one of his female friend because she's clingy as hell and it's really unsettling. He's lied to me in the past about not talking to her when he was. They were out of contact for a while but recently he randomly met her while out, he told me about this and he also expected me to let him have his friend back. But because I've been lied to so much about it in the past, I can't. I suspect that he's been talking to her because there's a social media on his phone that was a downloaded app and it is always in his 'recent apps' the thing is, we don't communicate on this app nor does he with any of his close friends/family. Today, one of his opened apps came up on his screen and he just quickly locked his phone without closing it, after a while when I was not near him he went on to close this app when i could not see. I don't know how to approach him with this.
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It is very much completely understandable and ok for you to feel this way. You are his girlfriend. You both are in the relationship, and if it is going to work he is going to have to be wiling to hear you and listen to your feelings and respect your feelings.
You are not being controlling... It is instinct, there is this girl, whether or not they have known each other for one month or five years, you are feeling threatened because she must be stepping over a line and from what you say up there, she is. It is not even about control, it is about understanding. You feel a specific way about something and it is not kookoo or anything at all, it is reasonable, and well, you are needing to speak to him about it more, because he is hurting you, and she is too.0