She is been so hurt I can tell that she is afraid to get close to me, on a deep level. I've been so hurt that I am afraid that I won't be cared for in the same way that I care for someone else. I am starting to feel like she isn't caring about me the same way I am, because of her past. and because of mine I am feeling insecure. We have not talked about our pasts much, But I want to tell her everything and explain my insecurities. Since she isn't my girlfriend yet, is that a good call?
We have been on dates, kissed and have been talking for months, just not title yet because she wants to take things slow.
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I think both of you should air out your pasts to each other which will build trust and help you two work on your insecurities.0