I defied a lot, but I almost always end up doing what my mom wants me to do. So, now I'm dating this guy that I think is attractive, but his personality is nothing like what I'm attracted to. And the personality has to be right for me to fall for a guy because physical attraction is not enough for me. My mom is happy, but I feel miserable. I feel like I'm stuck.
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You are an adult, and you cannot submit your entire life to your parents desires. Do not enter into a marriage you do not want. Neither you nor the young man will be happy if you marry him to please your mother. And do not waste this young man's time by continuing to date him when you know you do not want to marry him. Yes, your mother will be disappointed, and perhaps the young man as well. Or perhaps he is getting similar pressure from his family and will be relieved. It's your life. You only get one spin. Make yourself happy and let the others worry about themselves.0