I have a tendency to jump to conclusions especially when it comes to guys.
I know i can self sabotage a lot and i catch myself accusing guys (in my head) of either playing me or even being dishonest. Since i dont really have much experience regarding dating i guess i get most my dating "ideas" from films and movies (I think).
For example if guys dont do things when and how i expect it i assume they are players, or they lost interest or they only want sex from me. I know its only in my head and because of my insecurites and past experiences and a lot of times guys do stuff or dont do stuff because of way more complex things then "hes just an asshole".
I went on a date with a guy on Saturday, he messaged me twice on Sunday, and when he used several hours answering my text on Monday i assume he had lost interest. But today i got a good night message... I obviously affcted by past experiences, but how do i get over it... i thought i was over it... but its kidna obvious im not. . So how do get over it? or stopi being so paranoid?
Most Helpful Guy
You sound doomed.0
Most Helpful Girl
I wish I knew the way. I am the same as you.0