I was there with a buddy, but he's kind of a pain and points out every girl that he sees and he will be like oh you want to talk to her? bla bla bla, which throws off my concentration. Anyways there was a girl who worked at a sun glass store I thought was kind of cute. She was a little chubby, but actually a chubby kind of cute. haha The thing is I can't remember the name of the store, but I know they sold sun glasses, Is it worth me going back to talk to her? I could just be like I was here a few days ago with my friend, but I didn't get a chance to say hi. What do you guys think?
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YES! What is the worst that can possibly happen other than she says she's not interested or that she already has a boyfriend? If you go in there as a non-threatening nice guy (by that I mean, not smarmy making her uncomfortable) then by all means, no harm in making her day, and seeing if it goes anywhere.
Ask her which glasses look good on you and be a "customer" to see how she pays attention to you. Ask her which ones she likes, and if she sees a pair and they look cute on her, buy them for her. Tell her that you don't normally go in to the mall and know she's working and probably can't socialize there, but you would like to talk to her and ask if she can add you on Facebook to talk to her after. Or tell her you were on your way to the coffee stand in the mall and ask if she wants her to bring her back something. (Then bring her a coffee AND a treat.) So yes, definitely go back and make her day. She will give clues that it's welcoming, and if it's not, at least you can say you tried and you won't have to always wonder what would have happened if you didn't.0