None of the guys were ever interested in me in middle school or high school, but I didn't like any of them either. Now I'm a junior in college and thought I might have a better chance at dating but I haven't had any luck. I've talked to a few guys for a while and then they just disappeared. This is a pattern with me and I'm not sure why. Everyone tells me I'm very beautiful, sweet, and smart but yet I have the toughest time with dating.
is there something wrong with me? I'm startimg to feel hopeless and think I'll never get a boyfriend.
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I'm an almost 24-year-old college graduate and I haven't either. I wasn't interested in dating in high school or for my first year or two of college. Once I put in a little effort, I had some bad experiences, but I've learned from them, both about myself, how others may think about dating, and what things are important to me in a partner. I've had the same experience as you, with guys saying I have great qualities, yet they treat me like crap. Sometimes you go through patches with lots of duds. It's not your fault if the other person isn't ready or mature enough for a relationship. I have my periods of doubt, but if you really work on yourself as a person, you'll find an even better guy when the time comes.1