This is something I really struggle with. I usually know from the first date of I would sleep with a guy or not. Then on the next few dates I know whether or not I could be in a relationship with him.
Once I've decided yes to both I sometimes find it hard to wait because for me I only start to feel really comfortable with a guy after sex and, well of course by that time I'm itching to find out how we are in bed.
The downside of this in the past however is everything is about sex once sex happens. But maybe I t was just those guys and what they were looking for?
I met a guy who is a good fit for me and he makes me feel safe. We've been on a few long dates and honestly I don't mind them getting stretched out.
We're seeing each other again this week and the weekend. So we've met up often but only known each other a couple weeks. I feel that makes it too soon. I think he will let me take my time but I'm afraid I'm going to have a hard time taking my time even though sex to really can ruin things.
Women do you hold off despite the urges? Men if you really like a girl does it matter for you if sex comes early in the relationship?
He remembers what I say and we have deep conversation even about kids. It's just like we are on the same level with a lot of things in our life.
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Sex is sex. If a guy really likes you and want to be with you you can have sex with him the first hour you meet him and nothing will change. Waiting does not make you a wife and going for it does not make you easy or a hoe. Only immature judges people. If the guy judges you for wanting to bring your relationship to the next level he was not worth your time anyway. If he feels the same and you two are on the same page go head have sex it does not really matter.3