We just went to a music festival where you camp for a few days with my him (he's my best friend brother, and Im currently living with her, she's been supportive of us hooking up) my best friend's friends and his friends. The entire time we were there he ignored me and just followed around this other girl that came with us the entire time and she was all over him.. which really hurt my feellings/ he also made out with her. So now I feel really hurt and dont know what to do...
I stopped sleeping with him two months ago because I was assuming it was just a hook up. But he still always tried initiating kissing me anyways, when were drinking usually but even just when were alone hanging out. I now (2 weeks before we did this caming trip) have turned him down all together and wouldn't let him kiss me either when we were out. He actually got really mad about it that night and got really rude with me..
Backstory, We were hooking up for the last 4 months and in the begining we did go out on a few dates (He had asked me out and was very persitent and this was after we already slept together) when I was home for the holidays for two weeks, but I was away at school after so our relationship was just really casual and we'd basically just hook up when we saw eachother and talked a few times a week. But I moved back to the city this month so were close by, ten minutes away.
When we hang out with a group of friends he'll always get really quiet with me, awkward and won't really look me in the eyes.. but he'll do things like sit right next to me. And a couple weeks ago he offered to drive me home so we could be alone and kissed me.
I did really start to like him unfourtunetly but I am so hurt now. Does it seem he did this all out of spite to hurt me intentinally since I cut off hooking up?
He's obviously a jerk, and I have absolutely zero intentions of ever seeing him or talking to him again, but unfourtunetly Im going to have to see him at some point since he's my friends brother.. Do I just ignore him and not acknowledge his presence? I was thinking to tell him that he's a jerk and hurt my feelings, but he clearly doesn't care anyways..
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So he was interested in you, really seemed to like you then you rejected him. He then tried to move on with his life and now you have decided, after already making it perfectly clear that you were not intereseted, you like him. And he is a jerk for being with someone else, who obviously was interested in him as much as he was in her. How is he the bad guy in this? Was he suppose to pine after you for the rest of his life? I don't see it. You were not interested so you shot him down then he moved on. It was your decision not his. Don't place blame on him, take responsibility, learn from your mistake and move on. He doesn't deserve to be treated like this.0
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