I'm 24, have been single for 3 1/2 years. I've had my fun crazy and party days. I haven't had sex in a little over a year, because I'm not one to sleep around. I'm not looking for a boyfriend, nor dating. I wouldn't even know where to start with that. I work, a lot. It's a career, at least 48+ hours of work a week. I can't help but think I'll be single forever. I am overweight, not way over weight. But a little chunky. I just can't seem to get over the fact that I'm still single, I'd like to get married and have kids, not any time soon, but I feel like I should start taking the steps into finding my husband so we can spend quality time together before having kids.
How do I change my way of thinking? When do you become completely happy with being single forever? Where do I meet someone? Or do I just completely forget about it? Help this single girl out!!!
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I thought I found my first love, but I was wrong. Really messed me up for a while. Kind of put me off, even intimidated me a bit, making me think I will never find them. Some days I don't think I will. Others I'm hopeful. I try not to look. Instead, I just go about things and maybe I'll just come across them. Like if love was like Narnia: you can only find it when not actively searching. At least, I think this is how it is for me. No luck so far. Maybe my hope is weighing me down because I have so much of it.
I dunno. Just keep at it.
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