We've been on about 4 dates (one per weekend). He never texts me in between dates unless it's to organise the next date. I even tried texting him once the day after one of our dates and he didn't reply but then texted a few days later to invite me to his house this weekend. What's going on?
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Pretty standard of guys, at least of most of the ones I know. I mean I would definitely reply if you texted me but I would really initiate texts for important reasons for two reasons:
1. Not come off as clingy/needy/always needing your attention. Trust me this is a bigger turn off in dating with women then you might realize.
2. Generally speaking, if we discuss almost all our day to day stuff regularly, then by the time we go on the date we won't have much to talk about and the date is going to feel either like it's become boring/stagnated or purely about physical aspects.1