So my boyfriend was acting really different and upset lately. I asked what was wrong and he finally told me that his dad found a job in England. We live in the U. S. and he doesn't want to go. He even talked about running away from his family so he wouldn't have to leave. So apparently they are going to live in England for 10 years and then move back to the U. S. I feel bad cause he doesn't want to go but he kinda doesn't have a choice. We were on the phone crying this morning. He said we are gonna try dating with the distance for a month and see how it goes. If it doesn't go well, then we break up and just stay friends. But both of us really love eachother and don't want to break up. I'm in tears just writing this. Like I can't imagine not being his girlfriend. Is there any advice you could give? Or any ways to help this work out? I'm going to see if my parents will let me visit him towards the end of the summer so hopefully that will help.
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Yes. And LDR's are possible, with commitement. Although, my case is not exactly like urs. We started as an LDR. the plunge for u guys may be worse. Just you need to really be working on communication from now on. everything and anything (feelings of missing, of not being well) all have to b communicated. and you should also try to remind each other of how much u love each other with frequent I loves you and cute texts expressing feelings (almost like love letters lol) to make up for the lack of physicall touch. Skype dates when possible are a must. google hangouts is also goood. whatsapp. sexting lol. even a bit of cam action is fine if u guys are already at that stage and trust each other.0