Do women like it when guys pamper them? Like when a guy makes them dinner, gives them foot massages, give them flowers and little gifts? Draws them bubble baths and makes them breakfast in bed, help them with house chores and stuff?
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I like for my man to show me he cares, but it doesn't necessarily have to be all those things.
I'm not much of a flower lover; I mean, I like them and all, but for some reason flowers don't make me feel any more special. I think because flowers have been overused for so long, I just feel "it's the thing to do".
I don't particularly like breakfast in bed because I just don't like eating in bed Lol. If he wants to make breakfast, that's cool and all.
I don't like baths, so drawing me a bubble bath wouldn't be a good idea.
If feel much more special when my guy pays attention to our unique lives instead of trends. For example, I love when he cooks dinner because he knows I've had a long day at work. I love when he buys me little chocolates he remembers me saying I liked.
The trick is to find out what a girl likes because we are all different. Pay attention to the details, and then you will figure out what types of things makes her feel pampered and loved.
Another thing to keep in mind, is that if you both work, then chores and cooking should definitely be shared. You shouldn't "help her with house chores and stuff"... you should be doing that because that is what makes you a responsible adult. It's not about helping her, because she shouldn't be primarily responsible for all of that to begin with. You should be helping each other.0