I like for my man to show me he cares, but it doesn't necessarily have to be all those things.
I'm not much of a flower lover; I mean, I like them and all, but for some reason flowers don't make me feel any more special. I think because flowers have been overused for so long, I just feel "it's the thing to do".
I don't particularly like breakfast in bed because I just don't like eating in bed Lol. If he wants to make breakfast, that's cool and all.
I don't like baths, so drawing me a bubble bath wouldn't be a good idea.
If feel much more special when my guy pays attention to our unique lives instead of trends. For example, I love when he cooks dinner because he knows I've had a long day at work. I love when he buys me little chocolates he remembers me saying I liked.
The trick is to find out what a girl likes because we are all different. Pay attention to the details, and then you will figure out what types of things makes her feel pampered and loved.
Another thing to keep in mind, is that if you both work, then chores and cooking should definitely be shared. You shouldn't "help her with house chores and stuff"... you should be doing that because that is what makes you a responsible adult. It's not about helping her, because she shouldn't be primarily responsible for all of that to begin with. You should be helping each other.
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Whenever you ask a generalizing question like this... I would like you to push the brakes and use some sense.
Do ALL women like to be pampered? Well some certainly do and some certainly don't. That's the correct answer and will be always to these types of questions.
You also won't waste time making a question like this.
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yes, all women appreciate these things. We like to feel adored and taken care of. But at the same time don't want to feel "smothered" by men like we can't do anything for ourselves. So probably best to do these things across some time and not all at once
That'd be so nice and sweet. I mean who wouldn't want to be pampered? I'd love to receive such pampering but at the same time I'd also love to be the one doing that.
YEEES! It's really sweet of guys to do that once in while and we really appreciate it a lot more than we show :)
Every now and then it is certainly nice to be pampered but if it was all the time it wouldn't be special. Likewise woman can treat men as well.
Of course!!
I would love it if he carries me in his arms too. 😍🙆😋😊😊😊I LOVE massages... so much. Like if I cooked dinner for us, and cleaned up and he said "Come here and lie down, I'll give you a ncie massage", I think I might be in love <3
I'd love to be pampered, and I would pamper the person pampering me in return for their kindness.
Ohh yes. I really hope i find someone that will do all of those things for me.
No. I would rather he fight with me about stupid shit because I like to fight people and I like to hit things.
No, I don't really like it.
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