Firstly I'm not trying to go racial people but I'm wondering when you say you are attracted to someone, do you consider their color or do you overlook that and you get attracted to the person inside not the color and besides if you do date outside your race do you consider what your family or friends would say about his or her color as unfortunately in this day and age some would disown you for going interracial
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This really shouldn't be an issue, but in this country it is sad that we can't get past our race issues. I have stories of my own and from people I know. Some good, some bad. I knew an Indian girl (from India) who fell in love with a White guy. It was double the pain for her because she was arranged to be married and her parents didn't want their kids dating outside of their race. She chose love and was disowned. That was 10 years ago and she still doesn't talk to her family and her sister has to sneak around to vist her.
I was dating this White girl for a good year. Everything was fine when her parents thought that we were just friends. They loved me. They said that I was the most respectful guy, and that I was so nice, and wished that there were more guys like me. That all changed when they found out we were a hell of a lot more than just friends. Everybody from her family and friends told her that she needs to think about her family and how weird it would be to add a Black man to the mix. And after all the praise her folks gave me, my girl told me that her mother said that you shouldn't date out your race unless the guy is rich. She held out for a while, but one day she says to me that she thinks she wants to marry a White guy. That was pretty much the end of the story.
As accepted interracial dating is, it is still just as widely not accepted. You have to do what is right for you. And if a guy outside your race makes you happy then you should be with him. Just because the two of you are happy doesn't mean that his family will welcome you with open arms. It doesn't mean that yours will either. But you can't live for your family, friends, or anyone else. You only have one life and you need to make the best of it. So be with whoever you want to be with.0