I've been dating this guy for a little over two months now, and it has been going pretty well so far. However, I'm concerned about something he said last night while we were drunk at a bar. Out of nowhere (from what I can recall) he said that he sometimes gets annoyed when I say ditzy things, and that he'll just be like "come on". That hurt my feelings not only because it was so blunt, but because ditziness is just part of my personality. I'm silly and a little scatterbrained, it's just the way I am. He on the other hand is sharp, detail oriented, and very logical. I used to think that we balanced each other out, but the comment he made has flooded me with insecurities. If he gets annoyed by such a big part of my personality two months in, does it mean we won't last long-term?
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Not everything about everyone you are going to love. My wife is neat freak. I'm not as much as she is. He a jealous streak, I don't etc. So I wouldn't worry about it too much. You can tell if it annoys him when he starts calling you names and saying it out loud. Drunk talk shouldn't be a cause for concern yet.1