that cost around $60. Darn!! There is a guy I like and on the firt date he paid for both of us. We went to Applebees as he does not like junk or fast food, so we went there. Not that I like Mac or any other fast food restaurant but he is not into that unhealthy joints and i. well I dont eat at those places as well. He took me to Applebees and he piad for both of us and the price tag was $60 for both. There will be a second date eventually next month and this time it is my treat and I have to invite him for movies and idinner, and now that Im thinking about the price I think I will have to treat him to a place similar like Applebees, not lower than that cause it be disrespectful from my part since he paid for both of us the first time. I mean I do work and all but I have never invited a guy before in my life. The sad part is that when we were talking about the second date I suggested him that we could go out for his bday in that case I will have to treat him for movies and meals right?
He even mentioned me that and said: "Ohh if the outing is for my bday then you will have to invite me 100%" because before I mentioned him the bday issue he told me that for second date each pay our own movie ticket and dinner is my treat unless I want to pay for all he quoted . But after that the bday subject was brought by me and it be rude from my part if I told him like. "Well lets go other time when it is not your bday so each one can pay the movie but I will invite you for dinner." that be very disrespectulf and he won't like to hang out with me anymore cause I m not a woman of word..
O well I think this time I will have to spend money for the both of us movie and dinner when we go out for the second date unless we come with some sort of arrangement that movie each and dinner on me even if it is for his bday but I doubt it will happen, he told me that if it is for his bday I will have to pay 1'00%
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Not sure you even asked the question, by the end of that you pretty much came to the conclusion yourself lol. Anyway I would just pay for the next time you go out, for his birthday and then from then on, just pay for yourselves individually in every situation, that's what I always did on dates, to me it helps avoid confusing and a "was this fair" battle.0
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