if somebody doesn't like you in that way, why complain? just move on
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I don't get this "Friendzone" stuff. If you aren't in to someone, you aren't in to someone. Where in the rulebook does it say you have to be "friends". Friends implies friendship which may or may not include companionship. If I didn't like a guy, I didn't feel this need to then agree to friendship, putting him in the category of friends when in reality I just wish he would go away. If it means you're just trying to be nice and don't want an enemy, I get that, but it doesn't mean someone has to get a consolation prize because they didn't get their wish. Isn't it actually worse off to have the person kick around as a "friend" when you know they actually kind of have a little crush on you? I'd think it wouldn't exactly be helping matters.
It's as if there should just be a different zone for people when you already have friends. If they persist, they will be put in to a Danger Zone. Start complaining toward someone, they will find themselves in a Battle Zone. Once left alone, you can breathe a sigh of relief while in your Comfort Zone.0