I grew up in a predominantly white area. I remember back in school, there were 4 Asian guys, 5 Asian girls, and the rest were predominantly white. The Asian girls dated white guys and once they broke up, they'd wait for another white guy to be single and then they'd hook up. Never once giving us Asian guys a chance. Likewise with white girls and just about any other girl out there.
My Asian friends from school aren't freshie or anything. We're American! We do the same stuff that other Americans do. Because of our terrible luck on the dating field, we decided to turn our attention towards education and career building.
During university, we had a few dates here and there, but the story was the same - girls date us temporarily until the white guy becomes single and then they dump us without giving a fk about our emotions.. hooking up with the white guy in less than a week. Far out!
Yes, I know there will be some troll responses going "no one's going to date you with that attitude", but who cares.. I made my point and I'm sure people can appreciate how god dam hard it is for an Asian guy. Doesn't matter if we're educated, supportive, sporty, have a good career, romantic etc... we're Asian, period. Hence we're not desired.
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I guess, I can see where you are coming from and the segregation you feel, but that's not true.
I'm an INTP Asian who moved in to the US when I was 19. I don't think I'm that good looking, but I was popular in the high school so maybe I'm better looking than I thought. I seriously usually mind my own business while girls are the one who approaches me. I have had Asian girls, White girls, Hispanic girls, and Black girls approached me in the past. I have to say that I think white girls are the one who have approached me the most.
I have to add the biggest difference between you and me. While you do what "Americans" do, I do what I want to do. People around me find it interesting how much I don't care about others opinion, Those who don't know me consider me mysterious, while those who knows me consider me interesting.0