I was talking to a guy for about 2 weeks and when he asked me to tell him about myself I told him a little about myself AND that I had a son and he just stopped talking to me...did I bring up my son too soon?
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No, you need to be upfront about it from the begnning. (If you aren't, he'll feel betrayed.) Besides, don't waste your time on a guy you won't have a futrue with? Weed them out now! The guy you want is going to HAVE to be open to your child (you can't trick him into it later.). Besides, the guy has a right to know before he invests too much also. A lot of guys your age aren't ready for fatherhood (especially someone else's child). That's their right. But you also need to find someone who IS okay with it. If you keep stringing the wrong guy along, you are wasting your time and his.0