I feel like every guy I meet is just wanting sex only. If it's not that their talking to two other chicks an me but saying they would only hangout with me. Yet he don't have any initiative in terms of a 1st date or doing something fun. He sees it as oh dates cost money etc. a laid back one doesn't. Coffee an a cake etc.
He asked me what I wanted to do but not cus he cares all that much. It is just showing a truly lazy guy who can't make any decisions for himself. It's such an unattractive trait 😏. He is 23 which I know for a guy it means still mentally very young an immature. Not all but majority right.
I have big boobs an guys only seem to notice my body an care about that one thing like it lasts a lifetime or something. I find it so bizarre. Every guy I've met has lied or pretended then left when they realised its not going to happen. Which shows they are jerks an shallow minded idiots basically.
Guy I've been talking to for over two weeks I think now seems ok but he did say he messaging two other girls. So it's bit of a put off. When he's online an not replying he's obviously talking to them. Yesterday he didn't reply for long yet was online then offline on whatsapp but said sorry left phone at home but can that really be true if he's been online.
I am no fool but I said ok cool. He messages first everyday but should I even be excited when he's probably got a rota for who to message first an probably sends group message. I am even ill an he said oh that sucks you been sick today? I
I replied at 2pm an he didn't say nothing since or ask how I am which to me shows lack of care and thought. As he's even off today from his uni placement as he told me he is. I get if he's bit busy but usually this time of night he's free an I noticed few hours back he has been online. Not heard from him all night. I bet I will get some morning message like morning or how are you. Bit late ✋🏼it's almost like he messages to keep me about
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Set these men straight say look I know your intentions and I know you think I'm just going to give my body to you like that I have respect for myself so if you have any respect for me you would respect that I want to wait and if you are patient to stick around and we happen to form a relationship with one another then I will give you a peek behind my curtains and then some but until then take time to get to know me for me and not just my body if you have a problem with that then no one is stopping you from chasing the next girl tell them to stop wasting time and to upfront about everything1
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