I've been on a few online dating sites cuz I'm so busy with work and friends lately and I wanted to try something new. Why do I get no where on these things? I feel like even when they say they do, guys don't want to talk or they take FOREVER to respond. Lots of people have said im pretty and I try to be friendly when I am talking to guys but maybe I'm just boring? I've had like literally a few hundred guys in the past month contact me yet they either want sex or they appear to lose interest fast and stop contacting me. What gives? What am I doing wrong and how can I get more success on these sites and find the right type of guys?
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Just because a guy messages you first really doesn't mean anything. Guys have such trouble getting a response from women online that they message dozens of women at once hoping to get even one reply. If another girl messages him first then the guy will disappear for a while.
There is also a lot of socially awkward guys online. They may work up the nerve to message a girl, but then be too shy to message her if she actually responds to him.0