I easily get guys at bars and what not. I dont want that anymore, im over my stage of wanting that. I want a real meaningful relationship, but the cute guys that im into aren't into relationships... Some of the guys that i hang out with aren't typically the guys to get into relationships. Recently (im a junior in college) more and more people are starting to be in relationships. Not to sound full of myself or anything but the guys are dating darastically uglier girls then them... thoughts on how i can show guys i want a relationship?
Its really hard because at bars guys just want a hookup and thats really the only place i meet guys
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Any place where people go to have fun such as a mall, park, festival, or somewhere that people go to improve themselves such as church, school, or an interest group are all good places. Go to these kinds of places and practice talking to everyone and making a connection with them on something. Maybe you really like their shirt, or you both like Korean food, or you both have a passion for helping fatherless children. Whatever it is, practice asking good questions and making a connection with people. Eventually you will find a guy you really like and who really likes you and you'll be able to make an instant connection with him because you've practiced making connections with other people 1000 times before.0