Last night me and my girlfriend were walking my dog, we sat on a bench just to talk a bit and then we were going to set off, after like a minute i hear my name being yelled out and this i turn around and this girl who i havn't seen for 2 year just jumps into my arms lol. Before my girlfriend me and this girl were great friends and i think we liked each other but i don't like her now, she is just a friend. Anyways so i introduced my girlfriend and the other girl was a bit awakward since she didn't know the girl beside me was my girlfriend.
When she left my girlfriend got a bit and told me that she doesn't want other girls jumping on me and that she was a bit mad i held on to her for more than 3 seconds. I exaplined to her we're friends and i havn't seen her in 2 years... then my girlfriend just walked off with my doggy lol.
Woud you girls be mad or no? ALso this is our first kinda small argument and somehow i want to make it up to her but I don't know how, i don;t want to see her mad.
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It's hard to see something like that. But I don't think you did anything wrong. You introduced her as your girlfriend and explained the situation. You and the girl also didn't have a sexual history. Jealousy is healthy but it sounds as though she was overreacting a bit. Maybe contact the girl again and mention that the jump made your girlfriend uncomfortable. And ask her to refrain from anything like that in the future because you love and respect your girlfriend and don't want to upset her. Then mention that to your girlfriend. Say "honey I love and respect you a whole lot and never want to make you upset or uncomfortable. I talked to what's her name about it and she won't jump on me ever again. When you tell her be sure to keep it light. Try not to get defensive.. Then politely request that the next time your girlfriend sees you that she jumps in your arms.3