Personally I have a hard time approaching women because I find rejection really unpleasant, But are the so called players out there successful with women most of the time or have they developed a thicker skin?
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No, players don't take it personally because they understand that getting women is a numbers game. Approach X number of women, get Y rejections, get Z acceptances. It's simply a matter of approaching enough women to get a Z.
That's the thing most men just don't do. They approach one women every two years, cry about it, never develop any level of courage or ability to handle basic life skills, then wonder why they can't get a woman.
If you want a girlfriend, seriously, you can get a good candidate within a week. Approach 10 women a day for a week, you'll get a handful of dates setup (say, 3 or 4), and of those dates, one of them may workout. If not, rinse and repeat.0