Where can I find a guy who doesn't have too much going for him?

I'd really like to find a boyfriend, but I don't know where to meet guys who are in my so-called league, for lack of a better way of saying it.

Basically, I'm 32, 15 lbs overweight and on an antidepressant. Most people think I'm around 27, so sometimes guys still come up and talk to me, but if they're cute or fun or successful, I know it will never work. Likewise, I feel like a lot of people online dating are super awesome and I don't fit in. Everyone does Crossfit, travels the world, zip lines, etc.

Where are all the guys like me who aren't living up to their potential? Haha.


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Lol so you want an underachieving male like yourself?

    ... oh hey, how's it going? Come here alot?

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What Guys Said 6

  • Well don't look for dates, look for mates
    Once you have friends you'll start getting dates

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    • I don't think people over 30 have mates any more... But if they do, where do you find dudes to chill with?

    • Gag is a great place to start, okcupid, pof and etc can be awesome to
      Reddit has some amazing friendship tags to

      From how your wrote your question, I feel like you beat yourself a little too much. Give yourself some room to make mistakes and try to have some fun in life rather then thinking about what would happen and what ifs

  • This entire post is utterly depressing.

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    • It's the best I could do, aside from writing "How can semi-losers get laid too?" :P

  • Go for someone you want and not settle for someone less than you deserve

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  • You first have to believe YOU have something going for you.

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    • I don't want a jerk or anything... Just a guy who less intimidating and more likely to be ok with me.

  • Dont believe every profile you see.. a lot of people lie on there. Thats the reason why they are on there in the first place... its because they are bored and looking for something

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    • How do people figure out the truth?

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    • I'd guess most cute guys would just be looking for a fling with me and I feel like an actual boyfriend at the moment.

    • im in the cute category but im openmind, find someone like that

  • Throw a rock into a crowd.

    You found your man.

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    • I tried dating cops a few times and it just never worked! :P

    • Date one of the guys the fat cop is waddling toward in a pseudo-chase.

What Girls Said 1

  • Sounds as if you once had a BFF and then he left hmm?

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    • By 30, most people have :). I've been single a long time now, though.

    • Good for you...

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