my girlfriend just broke up with me because of her family problems. she was crying but I wanted to cry but held it back to calm her down and it worked.
i told her not to worry and that what we had was special. she needs time for family and that is important.
I don't resent her for breaking it up and I really cared for her and want her to be happy. she still wants to be friends and I accepted that.
i just don't know whether to hang around with her and our friends anymore I don't want to be the creepy hang on because I hate everything about that, but I want to make her happy and show her I will always be there when she needs me and not just that she haves to hang with me which I fell she is doing.
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I think you should move on. Let her know that if she ever needs you she can call you and you'll be there for you, but other than that move on with your life.
My brother had been with a woman since they were at school together, he was head over heels in love with her and had started saving so they could afford to move in together. After about three years together she moved away to go to university. He travelled every weekend to be with her without complaint and then out of the blue she ended it with him, but she told him that she still wanted to be friends. He hoped she would change her mind and they would get back together so he still travelled ridiculous distances just to hang out for a few hours, but every time he saw or spoke to her it tore him up. She on the other hand was happy, she could now start looking for a new man while keeping the old one around providing the emotional support he always had.
If someone wants to end it, then end it properly. Don't stick around to give them a second or third opportunity to kick you in the teeth again.0