If yes why?
If No why?
- Yes!!71% (12)67% (26)68% (38)Vote
- No!!29% (5)33% (13)32% (18)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
"Scare" isn't the word. It's just a dealbreaker. Some guys either want their own kids or don't want kids at all. So having a kid is already problematic for them. Plus you'll be subjected to whatever the guy feels happened within your last relationship. Some will also feel that the girl was reckless because she had a kid with someone she wasn't willing to stay with. While each situation is different, the ending point is that the relationship didn't work out and the couple took a step into a relationship where the couple should be able to stay together for life. Many guys aren't going to say this outright to a girl, but that will be their impression of her. There are obviously situations where the guy may have died and there was no way to avoid it. But most situations I see out there are couples who are careless about protection and they aren't at a point where they're really all that committed to each other.3