Why it isn't a big issue of a man has kids but a big issue if your a single mom? does being a single full time dad is a deal breaker? Have anyone experience these situations or just judging?
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Well, the difference between dating a single father and a guy who has kids can be really significant for the woman dating him.
For example, my current boyfriend of about five months is a single father. He has am almost three-year old son and the boy's mother passed maybe two years ago. If things progress with my boyfriend, for all intents and purposes, I'll be this little boy's mother. That is a HUGE responsibility, which I do take seriously and I'm willing to be open to that. A lot of women aren't and that's fine so long as you avoid relationships like this. Otherwise, it's not fair to the children.
On the other hand, I have also had boyfriends whose kids were either grown or the mother had primary custody, so I rarely interacted with them. Relationships like that are different. Why are they different? Because you're not inserting yourself into a child's life, therefore, there is less responsibility.0