uh the biggest issue here is that you allow him to objectify you and tell you how you should be rather than loving you for you. if he wants a girl with certain physical traits than he should date that type of girl. if he is going to date you he needs to be in it because he likes you inside and out.
my honest feeling is that you shouldn't even bother trying to please guy. move on to someone better
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He just wants you to be as hot as possible so that other guys will be envious of him. It's an insecurity/ego thing. He's still attracted to you, but he knows "fit" girls are generally seen as the most attractive by society, so that's what he wants you to be.
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Well, I see that he's only following her on the instagram, nothing to worry about and actually a lot of guys and girls do it (?). I don't think you should be worried about a "Picture Girl" from instagram and stop making so much fuss about it. He might changed the subject because he might have feel uncomfortable with your questions in mind?
There are way to many fat people in the US. Women weigh 30 pounds more on average today than the did 50 years ago in the US. So, lose the weight and you will not have to worry about it or dump him and date a guy that is into fat chicks.
Following someone doesn't mean anything... it could be a follow for follow or something like that... :)
He just wants what he hasn't got if you had a flat stomach he'd move onto something else and you would be forever trying to please him.
wow i mean i think it's still reasonable to ask you to lose a bit weight IF that's his preference but if he's doing it to jerk you around and control you, and it not because he likes fitter girls, then i'd say dump him, he's a control freak and it's not gonna become any better
dump him! he's a lying manipulator, and nobody got time for that!
Drop him like a bad habit. You deserve better that that.
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