I am talking to his guy I met online and he said that his biggest turn on is a flat stomach. I have a chubby belly that won't get flat due to the baby I had months ago, and also because I have never really been "small". I guess what I wanna know is do people really date to their ideal perference. We have soooo much in common and have amazing conversations. Is it a lost cause? Thanks so much for answering.
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Did you answer him honestly when he said that? If a guy says anything like that to me about big boobs, long/thin legs, etc. I'm usually quick to say I'm probably not their type. None of them have ever wanted to stop talking to me afterward because usually I have other characteristics that they like, but I felt it was important to clear the expectation right away so that they knew what I was bringing to the table.
That being said, yes, people date outside of their type all the time. As long as there is attraction and intrigue from other factors.0