It happens often enough that its starting to annoy me. I want to talk and get to know the guy, not just talk about sex or send pictures back and forth.
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Perhaps you can do this better on a real date. The texting environment allows us to conceal our true selves. There is no incentive to be forthcoming and honest. Yes people can still lie (or embellish) their persona, but a face to face REAL date allows us to gauge body language, and that can tell whether someone is comfortable with the conversation.
On a real date you will have to talk about things other than sex, and no pictures needed when you are sitting 3 feet apart.
My advice: filter out the guys who insist on inappropriate photos or have little else to talk about but sex.
Find the guys who are interested in YOU! They want to know all about you and your family, your likes and dislikes, your favorites and taboos.
Keep on trying, a smart girl is always worth the wait!0