We like each other a lot when we first met 2 months ago, we dated several times and want to take things seriously. But at that time I just broke up, so I couldn't get over my past though I liked him a lot, so I always got drunk, wasted, talking about my ex. In the end he is not texting me anymore. Now that it's been a month we didn't contact each other, I started to text him again last night coz I need to sent him something via mail. We chatted a bit briefly but I didn't ask him out and he neither.
Guys, do you think he would like it if I tell him that I'm over my past already? And how should I tell him? How should I ask him out again? Thank you!!
- yes he will be happyVote A
- no he will think it's annoyingVote B
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Thanks for your opinion on my letter :).. In my opinion You should ask him and be honest with him. Tell him exactly what you were feeling. Maybe something like this.
"Hey I just want you to know that I'd really like to go out with you again. When we first talking I was really enjoying things with you but I was still going through some emotional problems from my breakup and I made an ass of myself by talking about him and all but I realized that i was just hurt and my confusion about my past really wasn't worth losing you over... Anyway not to get into that again i just want you to know that i really enjoy spending time with you and getting to know you and i would love to have the chance for us to try things out again without me sabotaging it for a dumb ass reason. Im not trying to make excuses for my poor choices and really I regret acting the way I did with you and I hope i didn't ruin any potential between us. Anyway if you're free to hang out id be happy to see you again :). And if not I understand and I'm sorry if my insecurities about the past made you feel like shit or that I didn't care about you"
Anyway thats just a rough idea cuz im not sure what the situation is exactly or how you speak to eachother so just edit it to how you would word it! :) i hope everything works out and keep me posted im curious... Im a life & relationship coach so im interested to hear the outcome :)0