I'm beginning to think a girl with a kid would actually be better than one without since they would be more mature and out of their party stage. etc. I'm willing to give it a try.
Most Helpful Girl
I agree with some of the other posters here. You shouldn't narrow your dating scope based on whether or not she's a single mom. There are plenty of good women who are moms and who aren't, just as there are plenty of not so great women on both ends. Also - and I say this as a single mom of more than one kid - the priorities will be different and should you be the kind of man who can't handle being second that could get to you after a while. There are so many perks to being with a single parent but there are also a lot of other things to consider on a person to person basis. You need to really be ready for some of them if you're going to attempt to woo a single mom. Last minute cancellations because of a baby sitter issue/sick children, inability to be spontaneous all the time, etc. You are NOT becoming a dad just by dating a single mom, trust me. Any mother who wants you to play 'daddy' is not a good woman to be with. IF you ever get to meet the kids then you would be their pal. Maybe someday you'd be a sort of fatherly figure but never Dad... just a friendly tip. I dated one man a while back seriously, after he met the kids he tried to be their dad and he was gone before you could count to one. ;)
Bottom line, just look for a woman who is on the same wavelength as you and wants the same things. She doesn't necessarily have to be a mom or not.2