The first time we tried to go out, I told him, but he didn't make solid plans because he had to do something the only night I was free. I made other plans, as I do not wait on guys to make time for me. He didn't even mention it, but opted to text me instead. This really turned me off. I went on vacation after this, so everything just kinda got delayed. The other night, we were talking, and I jokingly (but not really) told him that I wasn't making any more moves. He said he had asked me out, to which I retorted that he said maybe and didn't mention it the night. He said he wanted to take me out when we were both free and had something to do that night, and asked me to let him know when I was free. He never texted back after my reply telling him I would let him know. I haven't heard from him in 5 days... is he just waiting to see if I'll let him know? Because at this point, it kinda feels like I'm risking a lot to text him because I've been the one acting the most interested. He used to keep in contact all the time... now I'm good to hear from him twice in a week... and the placing the ball in my court is so lame.
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well he put it in your court so he is waiting. if I tell a girl "lemme know if your schedule opens up" then im just gonna continue doing my own thing until she gets back to me. if she doesn't contact me after a week the most then I have my answer and its on to the next girl.0
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